Ways To Say “I Love You”

You have been in a relationship for some time, you love your partner, and you want to show it?

Maybe you tell her sometimes “I Love you” but you may feel that after a while this will lose that special charm. If you tell her every day that you love her, it will become routine and will not have any effect on her anymore. After a while, she might think that you just say it and you do not mean it anymore, and she will wonder if you still
care about her.

Therefore, it is better not to tell her so often that you love her, you can show her. Actions speak louder than words. In order to show her your true feelings, you have to make her feel special to you even if you are together for a very long time.

Here are some useful ways to show her your love without saying it. Remember that sometimes you should tell her “I Love you” but make do so during some special moments.

Surprise her every day with something that she does not expect you would do for her. For example, after a night spend together, wake up early and make her coffee so it is ready when she gets up. Treat her to breakfast in bed. This is definitely a good start for a great day.

Give her a soft kiss before you go to work. Show her that even at work you are thinking about her and the time spent together by leaving her messages on her voice mail with a silly, romantic poem.

Make everyday special. Spend quality time with the one you love. Cook her favorite meal, place love notes in her lunch and don’t forget to compliment her sometimes – tell her she looks amazing like in the day you met.

Get off work early and surprise her with a dozen roses and dinner just to show how much you love her. Prepare a special evening with a candle-lit dinner. What can be more wonderful than wine and dine under the romantic glow of a thousand candles?

Give her roses for no reasons at all. Deliver flowers with a special note attached “I Love you”.  However, never forget anniversary and birthday.

In addition, you can offer her a special evening by treating her to a relaxing massage. Rent a romantic movie, or create a romantic atmosphere by dancing  to slow music,  and whisper “I Love you” in her ear.

You don’t have to do something special everyday.  But doing the unexpected once in awhile, you’ll impress her and make her feel good.

For example, spend a night outside under the stars and talk about your first date. On another day prepare a basket and take her on a picnic, or plan a swim for two at the pool, or even a picnic on the beach.

You have many possibilities to show your love for her but do not forget that sometimes it is good to hear those three words “I Love you”.

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Growing Your Online Dating Relationships

Just like regular real-world relationships, online relationships need tending, to grow over time. Here are some quick growing tips.

1. Take time and make time. Does your online date get in touch with you regularly? Do you do the same? Neglecting virtual meetings can be considered abuse or neglect, so treat each other’s time with respect. If it’s lacking, it might mean time to move on.

2. Communication needs to “feel” right for both of you. If one of you is too pushy about meeting, for instance, that can give off bad vibes. So don’t rush. Take time to learn more about each other and develop trust.

3. Respect each others privacy. Don’t share personal email addresses or digital photos online, for example, if your online date sent you the information in confidence.

4. Share special online and offline fun times. Online – send greeting cards, links to favorite places to upload digital photos of your favorite pet, download music and video clips, post on favorite forums of interest. Offline- if you’re exchanging addresses or post office boxes, send print greeting cards and postcards, small items from your area (like a key chain with your state bird).

Tend to your online relationship. Water it with care and over time it can sprout and grow.

3 Tips For A Perfect Relationship

After a certain point in their lives, most women are wise enough to realize that the perfect Hollywood-movie style relationship doesn’t exist in real life. Yes, it would be great if every relationship was completely free of trust issues, and it would be fantastic if you just never fought with your man. Wake up, because it’s a dream that’s never going to happen. While your life might not be a Hollywood movie (if only!), there are some things you can do to help smooth the path to relationship perfection.

1. Know When To Speak Up… And When To Shut Up…

Confrontation can be a bitch, it’s true, but if there is a serious issue that is bothering you, and that may cause problems in your relationship in future, you should say something. Let your guy know what’s up, and hopefully the problem can be fixed. Don’t be afraid to speak your mind – just think of the benefits that may be reaped.

On the other hand, you don’t have to say everything that’s on your mind. Does your guy have some annoying habits that bug you? Maybe he unconsciously hums while he reads, or maybe he’s a foot tapper. You don’t have to make every tiny thing an issue. Vent to your best girlfriend about your guy’s freakish habits, and then shut up and let it go.

2. Don’t Become Siamese Twins

Couples who are attached at the hip 24/7 are doomed to fail, not to mention extremely obnoxious to be around. It’s great that you want to spend time with your significant other, but don’t overdo it. For one thing, your friends, who want to hang out with you, not the you-plus-boyfriend combo, are sure to get annoyed – and you will want to keep your friends around to rant to when your man starts getting on your nerves.

Aside from alienating your friends, a Siamese-twin-relationship may eventually sap the desire from your relationship. When you see your guy all the time, it’s not a big deal when you get to have dinner together, or spend the whole day in bed with him on Sunday. Leading your own lives is the key to keeping a relationship hot and exciting.

3. The Three Little Words

There are three words that are essential to making every healthy relationship work and no, they are not “I love you.” Try “I am sorry” instead. If you screwed up, be it by scratching his favorite CD or simply saying something hurtful (know when to shut up!), suck it up and apologize. But you shouldn’t be the only one apologizing. If your man messes up – and of course he does – you should be hearing those three little words coming from his lips. One word of caution….don’t apologize all the time since it becomes annoying and will lose it’s true meaning.

You shouldn’t be the only one following these three golden rules to relationship bliss. Get your man on board – just leave this article lying around the house, with key passages highlighted. He’ll get the point. With both of you following these tips, your relationship will be on the path to perfection.

What Kind Of Date Are You Looking For?

Do you know about what kind of dating partner are you looking for? Have you broadly specified the qualities that you are looking for in your dating partner? If not it is time you do that. Otherwise, you will never get satisfied with any dating partner. If you yourself do not know what you are looking for, how will you succeed?

Unfortunately, when we look for to buy anything, we try to find out what we are looking for. But when it comes to a dating partner, many of us have no clue about what kind of person will satisfy them. Let’s look at some qualities that may specify your partner.

Physical – Are you looking for a smashing looker? Will you be happy, even if the other person is lacking in intelligence but has a great body? Or you need more intelligence and an Ok, body? Are you prepared to compromise on looks if your partner is otherwise good, or good looks are a must? Think hard and decide on physical attributes you’re looking for.

Emotional – What should be the emotional makeup of your partner? Will you be emotionally satisfied only if you find a caring partner? Or you need someone for who you will care? Should your partner have his/her emotions ruling over the head? Are you looking for a very compassionate person or someone very tough and emotionally strong? Someone who begins crying looking at a miserable scene or one who will say – this is what life is and walk away? Emotions rule every facet of our life. We must know our emotional make up and also know about the emotions we want in our partner. Prepare a long list of questions about emotions you desire your partner to have and try to find out before you proceed further. If your partner is short tempered and if you hate anger, you will never love him/her. Am I correct? Define your priorities.

Intellectual – Will anyone with normal intellect satisfy you, or you need someone who can write volumes on any given subject. What is your intellectual level and what kind of partner are you seeking in this area? This quality is many times responsible for destroying relationships. Sometimes, people of average intellect manage to attract some one of very high intellect and then suffer from this complex all through their life.

Goals – What are your values in life? What are your goals about money, children, family life and other areas? If your partner has different values and life goals, it will be destruction right from day one.

If we know what we are looking for, we present ourselves as thinking individuals who know their minds to any dating partner. You will be respected for that and will surely attract the one you desire.

What To Do If She Just Needs A Break

Long term relationships are very difficult to sustain. After some time, misunderstandings, arguements and problems which are inevitable occur because that’s life. There are couples that know how to get past these problems and their relationship continues, but others fail. There are also other reasons why a couple breaks down – because there is no love anymore. They can’t understand that one of them is bored in this relationship. So what happens if she says that she still loves you but needs a break?

Let’s say that a few days ago, your girlfriend of just over two years told you that she needs a break; she still says that she loves you and want you to be together some day, but right now she needs some space, a break in order to settle her minds. What should you do?

First of all you should try to ask her the reasons, does she likes someone else? Maybe she won’t tell you the truth and keep lying to you, but let her know that by taking this break there is the risk of losing you forever. So if she really cares about you she will be a little worried that the game she planned would not go as she wanted. If you have the power, you should confront her and tell her that she is right, you feel too trapped lately and you too, consider that is the best for you to have a break, even this is not what you want and your heart is broken.

If a girl asks for a break in a relationship you have to give her that; if she still loves you as she said, then she will come back to you. If she tells you that she will call you, you’ve better wait until she decides to do it. Don’t try to contact her, give her the time she needs. Do not try desperately to get her back because she will run from you and then you will never get her back. Leave her alone, be busy and she will be sorry for letting you.

You should try and figure out why she wants to take a break as opposed to break up. Maybe you haven’t been the best boyfriend she ever wanted. Or maybe she is making new friends, venturing on her own, enjoying the single life, having second thoughts about the relationship and she is outgrowing you; she is having fun right now, but having you as a boyfriend may not really fit into her new life.

Another reason why she wants to take a break is that she is not quite ready to let you go, but she wants to be able to meet other guys, without resorting to cheating on you; or she just met a new boy that she likes but she is not sure if she wants to stay with him or you.

What happens if she still calls you, dating sometime, but she doesn’t tell you to get back together? The best thing you can do is to show her that you are fine without her, even if your heart is broken; all the girls are the same: when a girl feels unwanted, she is ready to do anything in order to be wanted again; so if she doesn’t come running back it means that she didn’t care too much.

You have to wait a little while, but not too much. If she is sure that you love her, she likes this situation: she feels that she still has a boyfriend when she wants, and also she is free to find someone new. So start letting go of your feelings for her right now and start dating other girls in the meantime. It is not considered cheating because right now you are not a couple anymore, you are separated. It is the only way for you to move on with your life and if by some chance the two of you get back together someday, it will be on your terms. So go out with your own friends and have some fun.

When people decided to take a break, what they are really doing is taking time to see if there is somebody more suited for them out there.

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