Ways To Say “I Love You”

You have been in a relationship for some time, you love your partner, and you want to show it?

Maybe you tell her sometimes “I Love you” but you may feel that after a while this will lose that special charm. If you tell her every day that you love her, it will become routine and will not have any effect on her anymore. After a while, she might think that you just say it and you do not mean it anymore, and she will wonder if you still
care about her.

Therefore, it is better not to tell her so often that you love her, you can show her. Actions speak louder than words. In order to show her your true feelings, you have to make her feel special to you even if you are together for a very long time.

Here are some useful ways to show her your love without saying it. Remember that sometimes you should tell her “I Love you” but make do so during some special moments.

Surprise her every day with something that she does not expect you would do for her. For example, after a night spend together, wake up early and make her coffee so it is ready when she gets up. Treat her to breakfast in bed. This is definitely a good start for a great day.

Give her a soft kiss before you go to work. Show her that even at work you are thinking about her and the time spent together by leaving her messages on her voice mail with a silly, romantic poem.

Make everyday special. Spend quality time with the one you love. Cook her favorite meal, place love notes in her lunch and don’t forget to compliment her sometimes – tell her she looks amazing like in the day you met.

Get off work early and surprise her with a dozen roses and dinner just to show how much you love her. Prepare a special evening with a candle-lit dinner. What can be more wonderful than wine and dine under the romantic glow of a thousand candles?

Give her roses for no reasons at all. Deliver flowers with a special note attached “I Love you”.  However, never forget anniversary and birthday.

In addition, you can offer her a special evening by treating her to a relaxing massage. Rent a romantic movie, or create a romantic atmosphere by dancing  to slow music,  and whisper “I Love you” in her ear.

You don’t have to do something special everyday.  But doing the unexpected once in awhile, you’ll impress her and make her feel good.

For example, spend a night outside under the stars and talk about your first date. On another day prepare a basket and take her on a picnic, or plan a swim for two at the pool, or even a picnic on the beach.

You have many possibilities to show your love for her but do not forget that sometimes it is good to hear those three words “I Love you”.

 

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Tips To Revive A Stale Sex Life

Myth: Sex Must Be Spontaneous to be Sexy & Enjoyable

Maybe you feel like this – maybe you’ve thought it, or heard it somewhere. It’s a popular myth that’s floating around nowadays, but as I said, it’s a myth.

Yet still some people think that sex must be spontaneous and ‘random’ to be truly enjoyable. This is one of the most stupid things you can possibly think.

When you both work, have children, or are just busy people, it can be hard to find the time or energy for sex. When it comes down to it, it’s just not there. It’s an unfortunate fact of life.

You want it to be random and sexy, and in the end, you just don’t have any. Instead of falling into this trap, decide a time where you actually plan to have sex that night.

Write it down and send your partner a ‘love note’, mentioning – specifically – what you plan to do to them. Add detail and color to ensure that they, without a doubt, get the point.

Make sure you have a bit of time, and put candles around the room, or buy flowers if you’re a guy – set the mood so that it’s something new, different, and – dare I say it? – romantic.

This spices things up.

Another trick to spicing up your evening alone is wearing sexy lingerie – this only applies to the woman of course unless you want a really kinky night! But a simple, sexy teddy or a tiny mesh bikini bottom can turn a boring night into an unforgettable one. Or the guy can get some saucy underwear as well, he may feel silly in it but that is half the fun.

If you’re embarrassed to purchase these sort of items in a store, never fear! There are countless websites that ship in a non-descript box right to your door, so you never have to worry about what the neighbor will think of your hot new look.

Men, are you listening? Go to the store and fulfill your fantasy – purchase your lady the best, hottest lingerie you can find, and ask her to wear it for you one night!

New Locations

Did you ever consider having sex on the kitchen table? Maybe in the dining room – or on the living room couch, when nobody is around.

Don’t be afraid to try new locations to make your sex life more interesting, because moving around is important. If you stick in the bedroom, you’re not going to experience much variety!

Move out gradually – try showering together, and see what happens. Even if you end up in the bed eventually, doing something different like that can spice it up.

Then, perhaps try a spare bedroom, or the couch – something a little more familiar. You don’t have to jump into it all at once, and taking it slow will let you get a bit more accustomed to it.

A change of scenery is important. Even in sex!

Travel

One five star New York City hotel owner pointed out that almost 80% of his clientele actually lived in New York City, and were coming out to the hotel in order to get away from their life.

You don’t have to go far, but a hotel room may be just what the doctor ordered for your sex life. You see, it doesn’t matter whether you’re going to be in the city you live in, or a thousand miles away – what matters is that you’re away from your home and the bed that you’ve always been in.

Just grab a small bag of clothes, and each other. Sit in the bathtub together, give each other massages on the new, strange bed, and keep neighbors up all night with the… TV.

Sure.

The TV.

It doesn’t have to cost much, and it can make you feel amazing about yourself, and your sex life.

Feel Sexy

Being sexy isn’t as much looking sexy, as feeling sexy. And if you’re starting to feel bad about how you look, it could be seriously affecting not only your pleasure in bed, but the pleasure of your partner.

Instead of feeling crappy about yourself, and your sex life, take the time and feel good about yourself. There are a lot of different ways to do this, too, and not all of them will work on one person – so figure out what feels good for you.

The most obvious way is to start working out. Grab your partner if you don’t want to go alone, and head to a gym, or just do some walking or jogging outside.

It may take up to three months to see results, depending on your current level of fitness and the time you put into your workouts, but you feel good now, working out and taking care of your body.

You can’t beat it, huh?

Also, consider taking your partner to a spa for a day (Or heading out solo for some you time), getting a haircut, or purchasing a few new pieces of clothing.

Men – worried this sounds more feminine than masculine? Trust me – something new makes any gender feel good about themselves.

Try New Positions

Did you consider this before, but toss it out of the window because your partner wasn’t adventurous enough? Ot maybe you think you’ve tried every position?

Well, bring it back to the table – and re-think your previous notions, because trying new positions can be more exciting than you think. It creates more variety in your sex life, and doing it the same way time after time just isn’t as interesting as it could be.

Not sure where to find these new positions? Head to the book store (Or online) and look up Tantra – specifically, Tantric Sex, which is rooted in Indian beliefs.

You’ll find positions, and ways to have sex, that are varied and very interesting. Even if you’ve been in ‘every damn position I can think of’, you probably haven’t tried these, like the Missionary position, with the woman’s legs closed to embrace the man fully.

Interested?

You can find a lot of information in it, and no matter how experienced you are, something new.

Movies

Maybe you like to watch porn – maybe it’s just not something you want to share with your partner. Perhaps it’s something you never think of, or maybe it’s something that your partner knows about, but doesn’t get involved in.

If you’re feeling like you’re in a sexual rut of sorts, try renting a sexy video, or downloading one and burning it to a DVD. Clear out the house and pop it into the DVD player in the living room.

Watch it with your partner, and don’t feel guilty or afraid of being turned on by it – that’s the point! After the movie, try some of the things you’ve just seen, or simply enjoy your partner, and the love that you share.

Watching sexy movies isn’t bad, and it’s not a sin. You won’t go to hell – you’ll just have better sexual relations.

Relax Beforehand

Feeling too stressed to want to have sex, and it’s ruining your intimacy? It’s ironic, because having an orgasm releases chemicals that reduces your stress level. I know – it’s funny, right? Well, not if you’re not having sex, it isn’t.

Before you’re ready to have sex, take some time for yourself. Spend 10 minutes completely quiet, meditating or just enjoying the silence. Yoga is a great way to calm yourself – exercise can help get that blood flowing everywhere, including the places it needs to go.

Take some time for yourself, and reduce your stress level before hitting the sheets. It can help!

Flirt

Being a little flirtatious during the day with your partner can make them feel much, much more ready for bed – and it can help you feel good about yourself, too.

Make sexual innuendo’s and jokes, offer flowers or a gift to your partner as an appreciative gesture (not an ‘I’m sorry’ gesture), and take them out to a romantic and fun ‘date night’.

Flirting and courting is something that should be continued in a longterm relationship, and even throughout marriage – because it’s exciting, and makes both of you feel good about what you’re doing.

Remember the old saying – what you did to get’em, you do to keep’em!

Atmosphere

Before venturing outside of the room, why don’t you try something new – like setting a romantic, sensual atmosphere in your own room, instead of outside.

When it comes to men and women, the atmosphere can make or break a hot night – especially with women. What can you do in order to spice up the room, and the feelings?

Scented candles work well, and putting a few around the bedroom before the magic happens, along with dimming the lights, can make a big difference.

Sensual-scented incense can heighten both of your pleasure, as well as make your room smell good afterwards, instead of sweaty.

If you’re not a big ‘scent’ person, try some new decorations – buy luxury, soft sheets for the special occasion, and use lights that are dimmer than usual to create a romantic and exciting atmosphere.

The atmosphere is everything – especially with women – so get it right!

Toys

Have you considered trying sex toys? If you haven’t, you should – because it can make a boring, routine night a much more exciting one, without hassle or stress, and without too much ‘out of the box’ thinking.

You can purchase different toys online, or in sex stores, depending on what you want to try. Don’t expect to do something crazy, and make sure both of you are comfortable with it. There are many different sorts of toys out there, so don’t be afraid to look at more than one before you make your purchase.

Toys are something fun, different, and exciting that will make your night worthwhile. Don’t worry – they do not detract from the bedroom, or each other. They enhance it!

Remember…

Rome wasn’t built in a night – give yourself, and each other, time to enjoy and appreciate the sex that you’re having. Try new things, shake it up, and try, as hard as you can, not to fall into a rut that will leave you unhappy.

Before turning to an alternative like having an affair, or worse, a divorce, talk with your partner about your sexual relationship. Don’t be afraid or embarrassed to admit that you might not be entirely happy with it… the most likely thing is that they won’t be happy either.

Sex should be fairly often – at least once a week – and you should feel excited about the prospect, not annoyed.

It won’t happen overnight, but taking some time and figuring out what you want can save your relationship, and make you feel young again!

How To Make Your Partner Laugh

Laughter is the best medicine, they always say – and for many, it’s the center of their being. Making a person laugh not only feels great, but it’s important… if you can make your partner laugh, you can win their heart.

But for many, laughter doesn’t come easy. Making your special guy or gal laugh can be difficult, and if you’re nervous, or awkward, around them, it’s going to be even worse. What can you do?

Well… it’s not easy. And it’s something that you need to practice at. But making your partner laugh can not only be the most satisfying part of the day, but you’ll make’em feel like a million bucks.

So, where do you start, and how can you put a smile on their face for sure?

Something to Keep in Mind Before Continuing…

This is something that no book, report, article, or movie will tell you.

Everyone is different. They laugh differently, they love differently, and they endure hardship differently. And because of that, each person will laugh at something different.

There is no one way to make someone laugh – and there is no one way to make someone not laugh. Knowing your partner, and knowing what they like, really is the key to making them laugh.

That being said, this article is here for informational purpose only. These are ways that I, and other men and women, have found to make their partners laugh, from what not to do, the foundation of the laugh, and more.

I’m not saying that you’re going to become the next Dane Cook with this article – but you should have a better idea how to please your lover in the funny department.

What Not to Do to Make them Laugh…

I thought that we would start this off right – by putting things to avoid in here, before anything else. You can be the funniest person in the world, after all, but if you don’t know when to stop, you’re going to get annoying.

Pranks are Not Cute

Yeah, yeah, we’ve seen the old throw-ice-down-their-pants-when-they’re-sleeping prank a hundred and two times… but has your partner ever, once, thought it was at least a little funny?

The answer to that question is a resounding ‘no’. Remember that pranks are only funny on television, and that your partner is not going to appreciate you cementing their car, throwing ice on them, or jumping into bed at two in the morning drunk. No matter how funny you find it to be.

What Works on Your Friends…

What’s funny with your friends often isn’t funny with your partner, no matter how ‘with it’ they are. Many times, your partner won’t want to be considered ‘with it’ – they want to be your ‘it’. Most people have more friends of their own gender than the opposite, so your humor will be both from them and aimed to make them laugh.

Take the time to learn what your partner thinks is funny, you will quickly pick up cues as to what they find funny when you start trying, and then you can improve on what works and cut out what doesn’t!

Don’t Be Funny by Being a Jerk/Jerkess…

It’s not cute to flirt with the waitress or waiter when your partner just made a joke about you going home with him or her. They made that joke not to be funny, but to cover up their insecurities – so flirting with that person is going to make it worse.

Being cruel and saying things that are meant to undermine your partner while you pretend to be joking are a surefire way to being single not to get a laugh!

How To Ruin Her Birthday

Women usually have a knack for remembering dates, such as anniversaries, special occasions and birthdays. Men on the other hand…don’t. There might be a man that has God-like memory powers, but they are rare. If you want to sleep on the couch in the near future, just ruin her birthday. Here are the quickest ways to do that:

Forget

The quickest and surest way to ruin her birthday is to forget about it. Don’t buy a gift and don’t mention it, and you’re well on your way to the fight of your life. It’s in your better interest to mark her birthday on a calendar, one you look at often, in order to prevent this sort of disaster from happening.

Buy a Dumb Gift

You’ve probably heard horror stories of the guy who bought his wife a vacuum cleaner for their anniversary. If you want to ruin her birthday, try buying her a power tool you’ve been coveting for six months or tickets to the big game. She’ll assume (rightly) that you are a selfish boor, and only think of yourself. Next stop: the couch. Do not pass Go, do not collect…well…anything.

Invite Someone to Her Party She Doesn’t Like

If you want to ruin her birthday, invite someone to her party that she’s uncomfortable around. For instance, if you really want to ruin her birthday, invite one of your ex girlfriends to the party or someone she’s feuding with.

Remember, just because you like the person, doesn’t mean she does. And it is her birthday, so why not try to invite people she likes?

Treat Her to a McDonalds

If your motto is, “Go cheap or go home,” there is a very good chance you’re going to ruin your woman’s birthday in the near future. Do not, under any circumstances, take her to McDonalds or Burger King for her birthday. She wants to feel special and loved, and these particular eating establishments do not ooze that atmosphere. Sure, a Big Mac might taste great going down, and your wallet will appreciate you, but your woman will not. Take her out somewhere nice. Show her how special she is and you won’t regret it.

A woman’s birthday is important to them. They expect you to remember, and the very act of forgetting is seen as a sign that they’re not important enough to you, to remember. Don’t make the mistakes found in this article. Some of them are tempting, but deep down you really don’t want to ruin her birthday, do you?

Winning The Dating Game

Plans are laid, your mouth is dry, and somehow you just can’t stop your hands from shaking. You’re supposed to be picking your date up in an hour, yet your having a bad hair day, your palms are sweaty and nervous energy surrounds your body like a cocoon.

Dating is like a game, the more you do it, the better you get. Some people have natural talent when it comes to dating, and some people have to try, try and try again. But like a game, you have a much better chance of winning if you keep in mind the rules of play.

Look Your Best

Looks aren’t everything, but good hygiene, neat appearance and a pleasant body odor can come in handy when playing the dating game. Take some time to put yourself together. Your date will appreciate the effort, and it shows that you care about your appearance.

Confidence is a Man’s or Woman’s Best Friend

To win the dating game every time, confidence is required. Confidence is sexy. Both men and women are attracted to it, so it’s important that you gain some. This doesn’t mean you should be cocky, egotistical or a jerk. It just means you should seem like you’re confident being you, and all that entails.

Stimulating Conversation

You’ll gain some extra points in the dating game if you can make your date laugh, talk and enjoy themselves through conversation. If you can keep your date interested, the second date is just around the corner. Pull out some of your amusing or funny stories, and ask your date some questions, without getting too personal. Don’t talk about yourself too much either. Instead, just try to go with the flow, and keep the conversation as natural and free flowing as possible, without any awkward silences.

Smile

Smiling alone can help you win a second date. Smiling is attractive, and puts people at ease. Try to smile as often as possible, without seeming like a grinning lunatic.

Manners

Use your manners and be polite. Nothing is as big a turn off as someone who is rude and obnoxious. If you want to woo your date then it’s in your best interests to be as polite as possible, whenever possible.

By playing by the rules, you too can win the dating game every time and earn yourself a second, third or fourth date.

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