10 Mistakes Men Make With Women

December 30, 2011 by  
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“The
Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably
Make With Women—
And What To Do About It…

Here
Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid
Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes…

-By
David DeAngelo, Author Of “Double Your Dating”

MISTAKE
#1: Being
Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”

Have
you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted “nice”
guys?

 

Of course you have.

Just like me, I’m sure you’ve had attractive female friends that always seemed
to date “jerks”… but for some reason they were never romantically interested
in YOU.

What’s going on here?

It’s actually very simple…

Women don’t base their choices of men on how “nice” a guy is. They choose
the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn’t make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn’t make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn’t make a lot of logical sense, and it’s hard to
ACCEPT… but GET OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you’ll NEVER have the success
with women that you want.

MISTAKE
#2: Trying To
“Convince Her To Like You”

What do most guys
do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like… but she’s just notinterested?

 

Right! They try to “convince” the woman to feel differently.

Well, I have news for you… YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN “FEELS” WHEN
IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

 

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with “logic and
reasoning”.

Think about it.

If a woman doesn’t “feel it” for you, how in the world do you expect to change
that FEELING by being “reasonable” with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn’t interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best
to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.

 

MISTAKE
#3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission

In our desire
to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are
always doing things to get a woman’s “approval” or “permission”.

 

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them… EVER.

Don’t get me wrong here.

You don’t have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means “always getting her approval
and permission for things”, think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED
at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around
and want her approval annoy her…

 


MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts

How many times
have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and
had her REJECT you for someone who didn’t treat her even HALF as well as you did?

 

If you’re like me, then you’ve had it happen a LOT.

Well guess what?

It’s only NATURAL when this happens…

That’s right, I said NATURAL.

When you do these things, you send a clear message:

“I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your
attention and affection”.

Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity,
and weak attempts at manipulation. That’s right, I said that women see this as
MANIPULATION.

 

MISTAKE
#5: Sharing
“How You Feel” Too Early In
The Relationship With Her

Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most
men make with women is sharing how they “feel” too early on.

Attractive women are rare.

And they get a LOT of attention from men.

Most men don’t realize this, but attractive
women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE

An attractive woman is often approached several
times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per
week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

And guess what?

Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of
men.

That’s right. They have EXPERIENCE.

They know what to expect.

And one thing that turns an attractive women
off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts
saying “You know, I really, REALLY like you” after one or two dates.

This signals to the woman that you’re just like
all the other guys who fall for her too fast… and can’t control themselves.

Don’t do it. Lean back. Relax.

There’s a much better way…

MISTAKE
#6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women

Women are VERY
different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.

 

You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual
attraction.

But does the same apply for women?

Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something
else going on?

Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you
that women usually have their “attraction mechanisms” triggered by things OTHER
than looks.

Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men
with beautiful women than the other way around?

Think about it.

Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and they’re attracted
to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you
can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU
feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

But it’s not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

And ANY guy can learn how…

 


MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks

One of the most
common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they’ve even gotten started…
because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks
and money… or guys who are a certain height… or guys who are a certain age.

 

And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.

But MOST women are far more interested in a man’s personality than his wallet
or his looks.

There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet…

And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these
guys.

YOU DO NOT have to “settle” for a woman just because you aren’t rich, tall,
or handsome.

Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication
correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction
to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

 

MISTAKE
#8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women

Earlier I mentioned
that it’s a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.

 

Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER
to women.

Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the
woman wants.

Another bad idea…

Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over… Women aren’t
attracted to Wussies!

 


MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing
EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women

Now I’m going to
blow your mind…

 

A woman ALWAYS knows what you’re thinking.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language.
That’s ten TIMES.

I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you’re out on a date
with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

And if you don’t know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and
you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won’t help!

And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating…

Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting
physical… everything.

If you don’t know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it
up… and LOSE EVERYTHING.

And you KNOW it.

It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the
next with a woman… from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

 


MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

 

This is the biggest mistake of all.

This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success
with women that they truly want.

I know, guys don’t like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don’t
like to ask for help.

Hey, I’ve been there myself.

Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful
with women…

About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn’t know how
to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.

It frustrated the hell out of me.

One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out,
but I just couldn’t get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night…
right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be
successful with women and dating.

Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally
figured it all out.

I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly.
I’ve dated models, I’ve dated actresses, and I’ve dated nice, normal, regular
girls as well.

It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure
feeling… like I don’t know how to meet women… and I might wind up alone.

I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.

I’ve written a book on the topic, and I’ve done seminars on both coasts of
the United States… and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.

 


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Well, that’s not the case.

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I’ll talk to you again soon.

 

Your Friend,

 





David
DeAngelo

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Can You Really Text the Romance Back?

December 12, 2011 by  
Filed under Dating Tips, Relationship

Beyond Sexting?

If you’ve been watching the news, you’ve probably heard of big sports stars, politicians, and others getting in trouble for “sexting” outside their marriages.

But what you probably didn’t know is that there are tens of thousands of women and men around the world using simple little text messages inside their relationships to create amazing romance, intimacy and passion literally at  the push of a button.

Text The Romance Back?

Relationship expert Michael Fiore created a step by step system for using tiny little text messages to create a private “intimate channel” between you and the man or woman in your life… even if you don’t have much time
together (due to kids and jobs) or if your lover doesn’t seem very “romantic” now.

“The great thing about texting is that it’s private and you can do it anywhere” says Fiore. “Just by sending a few tiny little text messages you can ‘wake up’ the romantic center of your partner’s mind… give them a private ‘text massage’, tell them how you really feel, and really create an amazing level of heat… just by pushing a few buttons on your phone.”

Proven To Work On National TV


Fiore was forced to put his money where his mouth is when he was featured on the Valentine’s Day edition of The Rachael Ray Show. Live, in front of millions of viewers, Fiore showed a couple how to use his “romantic texting” techniques to amazing affect. Every woman in the audience sighed and Rachael herself said that Michael gave her “chills.”

 

Free Online Cougar Dating Site

September 5, 2011 by  
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Finding a free cougar dating site is a great option for young men.  Here’s why:

It’s free. While there are websites that require payment for membership, still there are numerous free cougar dating websites. Nothing is better than free.  Free dating websites do not require financial commitments and registering is quick and easy and can be accomplished in less than five minutes.

  • Finding a cougar on free online dating sites has become more popular especially with the advent of internet. Men seeking companionship of older women have sought the opportunity of meeting one in the websites where cougars have signed up to also meet a potential mate. Surveys have shown that cougars are more romantic and emotionally stable when it comes to relationships. More men prefer dating older women today than ever before.
  •  Another reason why men finds cougars online is that online dating caters to the specific needs of the participants who signed up in the website. The cougars-cubs relationship can be developed in the web because it is specific in catering this kind of relationship.  In online dating sites, better results are achieved because the cougars or the cubs can choose the kind of person they are looking for. The time spent for getting-to-know is shortened because of the profile says it all. The cougar or t cubs can easily choose the person he or she is interested in.
  • Free on line dating connects people from any parts of the world. There is a wider opportunity of meeting the perfect cougar or cubs for the searchers. The chance is almost limitless as it goes beyond race, nationality, and distance. Free online dating provides for searches of partners in wider criteria such as physical appearance, interest, lifestyle preferences, character and hobbies. The cubs on the other hand have the option to choose from a different age range for cougars, and such other preferences. The search can be vague or specific depending as desired and finding matches is easier and saves a lot of time and effort.
  • Lastly, finding free cougar dating site is helpful to maximize the chances of finding the potential mate and is still a very useful venue for starting a successful relationship.

 

Tips To Dating A Cougar

September 2, 2011 by  
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Dating a cougar is a challenge for young men. Although typically, it is pretty much like dating a younger woman, here are extra tips for men on how to make a date with a cougar successful:

  1.  Be sure you are looking at the right place.
  2.  Sure, cougars may be found literally anywhere because they look like just your mom or your aunt, only hotter.  In short they can be in the grocery, the subway or the bus station.  But, there are proven two places in finding a potential cougar date: First at the bars or clubs and second, from on line dating websites.
  3. Be sure you have the right intentions.
  4. It must be remembered that cougars are “cougars” because they are older than you.  They have a lot more experience in dating so expect that they somehow get even your slightest body language. There are cougars that are looking for a boy toy or to be in a relationship with younger man, while there are those who are just want to spend a good time with a younger to guy to relive those fun-under-the-sun days into their lives after 20 years of boring married life.
  5. Be sure you don’t bring up the “age gap” topic.
  6. Cougars are old enough to know that she is called a “cougar” because she is interested in or flirting with, or will eventually date a younger man. In short, there is no need for you to rub the “age gap” thing in because they already get it. What you should do is to convince your cougar date that you are really interested in her as an attractive woman.
  7. Be sure to take her to the right place on your first date.

This way you will have plenty of time to get to know each other. It is important that you treat her just like areal lady that she is.  And just because she is older and richer, it doesn’t mean she has to pay for the bill.  Be a man. Finally, just be yourself, because dating a cougar can be so much fun if you know how.

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How To Attract Women

August 22, 2011 by  
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Three Laws of Attraction Every Guy Has to Know
by James, host of “How To Be Irresistible To Women Mastery Series”

“Attraction is not a choice.”
-David DeAngelo author of Double Your Dating

Interesting quote, but what does this mean to us guys? In short, women are conditioned to respond to certain signals, traits, and physical characteristics. It is not that they CHOOSE to be attracted to bad boys, or athletes, or wealthy businessmen. Rather, evolution has conditioned them to be attracted to these types of men, because they execute the right actions and behaviors that send off attraction signals in women’s brains. Talk about having chemistry!

The good news is, You don’t HAVE to be wealthy, athletic, or a bad boy to successfully attract women. You just have to ACT like them. You just have to know what behaviors, attitudes, and actions they have that WORK in impressing and seducing women.

There are 10 laws of attraction every man must know, but as I only have a limited space, I’m only going to detail the first three here. For the remaining seven, check out the “How to Be Irresistible to Women: The Mastery Series” course.

Now, onto the 3 laws of attraction!

Rule #1: Demonstrate High Social Status

There are lots of great ways to do this, including peacocking, which is a popular term for dressing up in outrageous outfits and hair styles; being energetic; and using your popularity–the principle of social proof. When women see you socializing with bartenders, managers, and club/bar owners, this proves that you are popular–and desirable.

So get to know everyone at the places you go to: the party hosts, the bartenders, the owners, the managers, everyone. When women notice you’re in a position of importance and popularity, they WILL become attracted to you–even if they don’t realize it!

Rule #2: Make Impressions

A great way to attract a woman is to make a memorable impressions. It doesn’t matter how good you look, how tall you are, how wealthy you are–all you have to do is leave a good memory of who you are. Make a woman remember you. You can do this in a number of ways, including:

* Ask how she’s doing with confidence

A simple, “Hey, what’s up?” in a relaxed tone goes a long way towards making a girl remember you. This is especially effective with retail clerks and waitresses. Don’t act too interested in what she has to say–just say it in a slow, cool, DEEP tone of voice that sends their emotional chemicals buzzing! Say this with a relaxed, open body and good posture. The truth is, when you understand what body language and tonality cues work, you will attract women with ease.

* TEASE her

Show your confidence in yourself by joking about a girl’s hair or occupation. You can say, “Wow, you put a lot of effort into that hairstyle, huh?” or if she says she’s a model or dancer, say, “Huh, just a model, eh? Well, that’s nice.” Acting unimpressed, ironically, will make her impressed. Girls are used to having guys fawn over them, so to do the opposite of what she expects will go a long way, to your advantage. This proves you don’t need any woman’s validation, to feel attractive. Hate to say it, but women want a man who doesn’t need them to feel good about himself. Don’t believe anything else.

* Joke About Other Guy’s Failure

This is a great technique where you can use other guys’ pickup failures to your advantage. If a guy says something really cheesy or stupid, just say to her, “Man, you must get that all the time.” Or just go up to her and say, “See that guy over there? He’s got the WORST BO in the world!”

Find out more methods, including how to make her laugh and tell great stories, by ordering my Mastery Course now. You can start with the free How to Be Irresistible to Women six-part audio course and move from there.

Rule #3: Be Funny in An Attractive, Cocky Way

As you can tell from the methods above, humor is great way of attracting women. Women just seem to love laughing, and when you think about it, you can’t blame them: Who wants to be with a boring guy? Especially if they’re thinking of settling down with a guy in a relationship, they want a guy who can keep things interesting, humorous, and not too serious. Humor does just that. Some great ways to make a girl laugh include:

Self-Deprecation

This is where karaoke is great–you can poke fun at yourself and be a clown. It shows you’re comfortable with yourself, fun, and not too serious.

Wit

As long as you don’t use it against her too much, wit can be a great thing. It shows intelligence and humor.

Observational Humor

Observing funny things like a clumsy waiter or a guy whose face looks like his dog’s is a great way of making a girl laugh.

Exaggeration

Telling a great story and showcasing how ridiculous something was, is a surefire way to leave an impression. Having a lot of anecdotes ready to tell a girl is a great way of making an impression, and attracting her.

Cocky comedy

This amazing technique, pioneered by David DeAngelo, is an incredible way of both demonstrating high social status, and of making her laugh. Generally, you want to break her balls and BREAK HER STATE. Take her out of her element, tease her in front of her group. Show that you don’t need her, and especially that you don’t need her for self-validation. Very powerful stuff, and something I discuss in detail in my audio lesson on Building Higher Status.

There are all kinds of additional ways to attract women, and truthfully, not enough can be written on the subject. But this should give you a start to your understanding of what women want. To find out more, check out my dynamic “How to Be Irresistible to Women: The Mastery Series” course on how to attract the women YOU want.

It’s YOUR turn to begin an exciting, successful new lifestyle!

James

Host of “How To Be Irresistible To Women Mastery Series”

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About the author:

James is the author of “How to Be Irresistible to Women PREMIUM” and host of the “How to Be Irresistible to Women MASTERY SERIES.” His years of dating experience and international travel have tutored him in the art of meeting and seducing females the world over and introduces a worldly approach to dating and developing real relationships necessary for the modern man.

The “How to Be Irresistible to Women PREMIUM” and “MASTERY SERIES” packages offer guys like you a dynamic and comprehensive toolkit to transform your dating success and establish a real and exciting relationship with the kind of woman you never thought you could get. James has thousands of satisfied customers worldwide who have used his learning system to help them change their lives.

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