Dating and Relationship Questions
September 25, 2010 by pattycakes
Filed under Dating Tips
I am devoting this category to any dating or relationship questions you may have. You can either leave your question/comment in the comment box, or contact us at support@datingsecrets309.com.
Recent questions:
I broke up with my Boyfriend yesterday. Then i made a huge mistake by telling him that i want him back. I really like this guy and i REALLY want him back. What do i do??
Are you wondering if breaking up with him was the right move because you’re having trouble moving on? Instead of spending time thinking about all the ways you screwed up in your relationship with your boyfriend, or think about all the ways he was special, and how you’ll never find anyone who understands you quite the same way he did, you should focus on what you want and how to have the kind of relationship you deserve. There are three things you do:
Recognize what wasn’t working for you - instead of thinking only of the “good times” and how much you miss him, consider all the things he did and said that made you fee linsecure, anxious or frustrated – feelings that one way or another probably contributed to the end of the relationship.
Stop “Losing Yourself” in your relationship - You probably gave up a lot to be with your guy. You gave up time with your friends and family.You gave up doing things you used to love doing- things like reading, exercising, going on hikes,visiting art shows, whatever. You gave it up in order to spend time with him. You gave it up to make him feel comfortable. You gave things up because the relationship seemed important, and you wanted it to work. Big mistake. You need to have time for people and interests outside your relationship.
Before you can move on, whether it’s getting back together with your boyfriend or starting a new relationship, you should stop putting your life on hold instead of realizing your own needs.
You are actually continuing the very thing that helped break your relationship apart, and made you feel unhappy and unfulfilled in the first place.
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I broke up with my Boyfriend yesterday. Then i made a huge mistake by telling him that i want him back. I really like this guy and i REALLY want him back. What do i do??